Questions and Answers about Dating
Dating isn’t just about having fun — it’s about preparation, purpose, and protecting your heart. In this message, Dr. Rocky Ramsey walks through some of the most important questions every Christian should ask before stepping into the dating world.
When are you ready to date?
You’re ready when maturity and accountability guide your decisions — not just emotions:
Have your parents' blessing and agree on your readiness.
Understand that dating is serious — it shapes your future, not just your weekend plans.
Set written standards for who you will date, where you’ll go, what your physical boundaries are, and what your dealbreakers look like.
Be willing to lose dates rather than lose your standards.
Who should you date?
God’s Word is clear: believers should date believers. Not just anyone who checks "Christian" on their profile, but committed Christ-followers. Dating as "missions" is dangerous — don’t risk your future on the hope of changing someone.
What should you avoid when dating?
Immoral environments that test your boundaries.
Getting addicted to the feeling of being in love.
Talking marriage too soon.
Oversharing personal pain or going too deep too fast.
Taking on someone else’s brokenness as your responsibility.
Dating God’s way means guarding your heart, honoring Him, and preparing for the person God has for you. It’s not just about finding the right person — it’s about being the right person.
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